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Isn’t it time you stopped walking on eggshells? Learn how with this fully revised and updated third edition of a self-help classic—now with more than one million copies sold! Do you feel manipulated, controlled, or lied to? Are you the focus of intense, violent, and irrational rages? Do you feel you are ‘walking on eggshells’ to avoid the next confrontation? If the answer is ‘yes,’ someone you care about may have borderline personality disorder (BPD)—a mood disorder that causes negative self-image, emotional instability, and difficulty with interpersonal relationships. Stop Walking on Eggshells has already helped more than a million people with friends and family members suffering from BPD understand this difficult disorder, set boundaries, and help their loved ones stop relying on dangerous BPD behaviors. This fully revised third edition has been updated with the very latest BPD research on comorbidity, extensive new information about narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), the effectiveness of schema therapy, and coping and communication skills you can use to stabilize your relationship with the BPD or NPD sufferer in your life. This compassionate guide will enable you to: Make sense out of the chaos Stand up for yourself and assert your needs Defuse arguments and conflicts Protect yourself and others from violent behavior If you’re ready to bring peace and stability back into your life, this time-tested guide will show you how, one confident step at a time. Review: Very insightful 👏 - Amazing book. The author is incredibly insightful. Really teaches you how to deal with difficult situations and people. Review: Books - Good read. Informative.








| Best Sellers Rank | #2,754 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #4 in Personality Disorders (Books) #4 in Mood Disorders (Books) #15 in Popular Psychology Pathologies |
| Customer Reviews | 4.7 out of 5 stars 3,763 Reviews |
N**5
Very insightful 👏
Amazing book. The author is incredibly insightful. Really teaches you how to deal with difficult situations and people.
T**Y
Books
Good read. Informative.
A**R
Helpful empathic information for all
If you or a loved one is suspected of suffering from bpd, this is a very helpful read, to both, confirm your suspicions, and draw a plan to deal with this very difficult situation.
B**A
Ok
Not as informative as I thought
J**N
Great book
This is a Great book that was recommended to me. My sister unfortunately exhibits these traits. At least now I have some insights. An easy to read book . Not to clinical so I believe anyone could understand it.
D**N
Must have for dealing with personality disorders
Great educational book for anyone looking how to address living or dealing with individuals with personality disorders came highly recommended
M**S
Exceptionally insightful look at victimhood patterns and human behavior—well-researched and clear.
Stop Walking on Eggshells offers exceptional insight into the complex dynamics of narcissism and mental health. Intensely researched and thoughtfully written, it opens a window into the victim-narcissist relationship. This book not only deepens understanding of human behavior, but also provides empowering tools to reclaim personal peace. It helped me immensely. Stories are real and heartfelt.
S**S
Excellent Book - Validating, Insightful, Edifying
This book was an absolute godsend. It put names to the behaviors, and hurts, I experienced from my loved ones. Because of it, I felt like I was not alone in the emotional abuse I experienced, and that I too could overcome and get out of a toxic relationship. I recommend the audio book too, as read by the author. The author actually adds additional insights that are not on the written page. Keep in mind though, that there is a quiz in the book that is harder to do from the audio version. - I recommend you listen and read it together at the same time. Depending on when, and if, you read this, there might be a few cultural references that may be out of date; but the behavioral analysis, and psychological insights are timeless.
G**O
Just what I was looking for
Just what I was looking for
J**S
Recomendado
Explica algunas cosas que mas o menos coinciden y explican las cosas que hacia la persona por la que compre este libro (como la mayoria que ha comprado este libro, por alguien). Me hubiese gustado que se profundizara en ciertos temas pero entiendo que para un libro que intenta explicar algo tan complejo, es difícil. Aun asi recomiendo su lectura
D**A
buy it
beautiful book
E**A
A genuinely helpful guide for understanding BPD in real life
Dealing with borderline personality disorder in a loved one is extremely challenging, and this book offers clear, practical guidance rooted in real clinical understanding. As someone who grew up with a parent with BPD, I found the explanations and strategies in this book both validating and genuinely useful. It helped me make sense of years of confusion and gave me tools I could actually apply. One thing worth emphasizing: Stop Walking on Eggshells is not a substitute for a professional diagnosis. If someone suspects BPD in themselves or a loved one, a proper clinical evaluation is essential. The book does a great job highlighting why self-diagnosis—especially from media portrayals—is unreliable and can create more harm than clarity. This resource helped me tremendously alongside therapy, and I believe it can offer the same clarity and support to many others trying to navigate these difficult dynamics.
S**C
A great help, this book left me better off from just reading it!
Great book, so informative, helpful and supportive. Thoroughly recommend this to those this is written for. It is not only the content but the way in way it is written that makes it so spot on.
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