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# The 6 Secrets of a Lasting Relationship: How to Fall in Love Again--and Stay There

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Review: Secrets Revealed - I have been loooking for a book that I couple use for an enlighted couples class at my church. I read a skim read over 20 books over the last few months without finding a very acceptable book. When I checked out the Six Secrets of a Lasting Relationship from my local lib rary I knew my search was over. It is an excellent book with the six pillars being a clear and concise motivation for not only topics in the class but a direction for life. It is an unbelievably clear book which aids one in their own relationship as a couple to make life better. Highly recommended.
Review: Selected Quotes from a great book... - The 6 Secrets of a Lasting Relationship by Mark Goulston, M.D. The intimate relationship rests on six pillars: CREATE = Chemistry, Respect, Enjoyment, Acceptance, Trust, Empathy. There is no remedy for love but to love more. Henry David Thoreau Time doesn't heal, truth heals. Ecstasy cannot last, but it can carve a channel for something lasting. E.M. Forester Let us speak, though we show all our faults and weaknesses. Herman Melville Love sought is good, but giv'n unsought is better. Shakespeare Trying to understand is more important than what you understand. "Tears are to the soul what soap is to the body." Ancient Jewish Proverb. What you don't talk through grows into a wall you can't break through. Fake it till you feel it. Disrespecting yourself for disrespecting your partner is something to which women are especially prone. A woman without warmth doesn't feel like a woman; a man without courage doesn't feel like a man. Disrespect brings out the worst in people, creating a vicious cycle of hurt, anger, retaliation and loss of self esteem. No memory of having starred Atones for later disregard, Or keeps the end from being hard. Robert Frost By indignities men come to dignities. Francis Bacon Of all knowledge the wise and good seek most to know themselves. William Shakespeare The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved -loved for ourselves, or rather, in spite of ourselves. Victor Hugo Young love is loving someone because of what they do right. Mature love is loving someone in spite of what they do wrong. ...acceptance, and it is priceless. Most women want to be cherished and most men want to be admired. Women try to change their men, and men try to keep their women the same. Defensiveness is a recipe for disaster. What counts in making a happy marriage is not how compatible you are, but in how you deal with incompatibility. Daniel Coleman Without emotional trust, you cannot have emotional intimacy. Trust too much and you end up hurt. Trust too little and you end up alone. Trust everybody, but cut the cards. Finley Peter Dunne There can be no deep disappointment where there is no deep love. Martin Luther King, Jr. Trust but verify. Ronald Raegan After you've been hurt the wrong lesson is "Don't trust again." The right lesson is, "Trust wisely." The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naïve forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget. Thomas Szasz Being in love always means having to show you're sorry. When you've earned forgiveness and your partner still won't forgive you, you're not unforgivable, they're unforgiving. It's better to have trusted and been hurt than never to have trusted at all. Love is what is left over in a relationship after all the selfishness is taken out. Nick Richardson Just as resentment triggers resentment, understanding triggers understanding, and empathy triggers empathy. Your partner won't know how much you know until they know how much you care. If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility. Henry Wadsworth Longfellow It takes minutes to love the way someone makes you feel, but years to feel the way they love. If you don't understand, they feel frustrated. If you don't try to understand, they feel hurt. If one does not understand a person, One tends to regard him as a fool. Carl Jung You can't put yourself in someone's shoes and step on their toes at the same time. Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction. Antoine De Saint-Exupery Marriages don't end when two people stop loving each other but when they can't stop hating each other. Look for the negative and you'll find resentment; look for the positive and you'll find gratitude. Nothing inspires loving behavior like knowing you're loved. Never trust a husband too far, nor a bachelor too near. Helen Rowland

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| ASIN  | 0399527397 |
| Best Sellers Rank | #2,104,948 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #3,532 in Interpersonal Relations (Books) #4,665 in Love & Romance (Books) #5,217 in Marriage |
| Customer Reviews | 4.4 4.4 out of 5 stars (69) |
| Dimensions  | 6 x 0.84 x 9 inches |
| Edition  | Reissue |
| ISBN-10  | 9780399527395 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-0399527395 |
| Item Weight  | 13.2 ounces |
| Language  | English |
| Print length  | 336 pages |
| Publication date  | April 2, 2002 |
| Publisher  | Tarcher |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Secrets Revealed
*by S***S on April 11, 2010*

I have been loooking for a book that I couple use for an enlighted couples class at my church. I read a skim read over 20 books over the last few months without finding a very acceptable book. When I checked out the Six Secrets of a Lasting Relationship from my local lib rary I knew my search was over. It is an excellent book with the six pillars being a clear and concise motivation for not only topics in the class but a direction for life. It is an unbelievably clear book which aids one in their own relationship as a couple to make life better. Highly recommended.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Selected Quotes from a great book...
*by P***L on February 17, 2011*

The 6 Secrets of a Lasting Relationship by Mark Goulston, M.D. The intimate relationship rests on six pillars: CREATE = Chemistry, Respect, Enjoyment, Acceptance, Trust, Empathy. There is no remedy for love but to love more. Henry David Thoreau Time doesn't heal, truth heals. Ecstasy cannot last, but it can carve a channel for something lasting. E.M. Forester Let us speak, though we show all our faults and weaknesses. Herman Melville Love sought is good, but giv'n unsought is better. Shakespeare Trying to understand is more important than what you understand. "Tears are to the soul what soap is to the body." Ancient Jewish Proverb. What you don't talk through grows into a wall you can't break through. Fake it till you feel it. Disrespecting yourself for disrespecting your partner is something to which women are especially prone. A woman without warmth doesn't feel like a woman; a man without courage doesn't feel like a man. Disrespect brings out the worst in people, creating a vicious cycle of hurt, anger, retaliation and loss of self esteem. No memory of having starred Atones for later disregard, Or keeps the end from being hard. Robert Frost By indignities men come to dignities. Francis Bacon Of all knowledge the wise and good seek most to know themselves. William Shakespeare The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved -loved for ourselves, or rather, in spite of ourselves. Victor Hugo Young love is loving someone because of what they do right. Mature love is loving someone in spite of what they do wrong. ...acceptance, and it is priceless. Most women want to be cherished and most men want to be admired. Women try to change their men, and men try to keep their women the same. Defensiveness is a recipe for disaster. What counts in making a happy marriage is not how compatible you are, but in how you deal with incompatibility. Daniel Coleman Without emotional trust, you cannot have emotional intimacy. Trust too much and you end up hurt. Trust too little and you end up alone. Trust everybody, but cut the cards. Finley Peter Dunne There can be no deep disappointment where there is no deep love. Martin Luther King, Jr. Trust but verify. Ronald Raegan After you've been hurt the wrong lesson is "Don't trust again." The right lesson is, "Trust wisely." The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naïve forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget. Thomas Szasz Being in love always means having to show you're sorry. When you've earned forgiveness and your partner still won't forgive you, you're not unforgivable, they're unforgiving. It's better to have trusted and been hurt than never to have trusted at all. Love is what is left over in a relationship after all the selfishness is taken out. Nick Richardson Just as resentment triggers resentment, understanding triggers understanding, and empathy triggers empathy. Your partner won't know how much you know until they know how much you care. If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility. Henry Wadsworth Longfellow It takes minutes to love the way someone makes you feel, but years to feel the way they love. If you don't understand, they feel frustrated. If you don't try to understand, they feel hurt. If one does not understand a person, One tends to regard him as a fool. Carl Jung You can't put yourself in someone's shoes and step on their toes at the same time. Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction. Antoine De Saint-Exupery Marriages don't end when two people stop loving each other but when they can't stop hating each other. Look for the negative and you'll find resentment; look for the positive and you'll find gratitude. Nothing inspires loving behavior like knowing you're loved. Never trust a husband too far, nor a bachelor too near. Helen Rowland

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ Good I Guess
*by G***K on April 9, 2014*

I bought it for a friend who enjoys reading about these things. It is a good book because she likes it so far.

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